Honesty

Honesty

We all learned in our schools,especially in essay writings " Honesty Is The Best Policy" is'n it!!. We write so nicely about honesty and scored good marks..But my personal opinion is "This honesty is missed in real life or may be rare".It may exit in text books or in essays.In our education system is such we learn so many good things but never ready to accept/adapt it in practical life situation.I am talking about the majority.There are exemption few good souls still adapt and live life up-to it.

What is the purpose of education?

Let it be even higher education....i found few perception/purpose of education is to shape&rise the individual to his/her higher consciousness.

In other words-

"The end aim of all education is the development of 'CHARACTER' ".

When one is honest, he may miss many friends.Very few friends will be with us...Still,that is good...let us miss out the others, not a problem.Who ever stand with us for our honesty that's good enough.

Nail In The Fence..

If, you are a person who hurt others often due to your temper or your habit of blow out sensation.Then it is for you..Others also can read..


•••• The Hole in The Fence ••••

... There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him

that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down.

He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence....

Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all.

He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his
temper.

The day passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, “You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.”

♥ Moral ♥ The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.

You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one

Sail Smooth

"All the water in the ocean never sink the ship unless it get inside of it."
" All the pressure of life never hurt you,Unless you allow it inside of you"

Every now and then, in life we face/encounter so many problems/struggle's.When ever we face such kind, we instantly get upset/worry too much about it and take everything inside of us,... that hurts.Not just hurts,it also cover our mind and our mind refuse to think to solve the problem in hand...slowly, by and by this will have impact in our personality and we may become a very angry person, that make us a blow-out personality.Throwing anger out for every small things and that hurts us and the people around us.

In the corporation bus's,you can see this kind of personality in bus conductor's.(Hope you would have seen) They always ask change for the ticket and when people give notes they just blast for no reason( This is called blow-out sensation).This people use abusive languages into the passengers...after they go home the same irritation they carry. They show the same anger, even at their kids who come with love and affection... This is a chain reaction that go's from one to another.

It is caused by occupational stress.To avoid this, just be aware of your emotion and learn to keep it under control where ever you are in.If you are not aware about ..then that creates more problems for you and also affect your relationship.Next time, when you drunk with more anger or irritation that pop's out as a verbal abuse.So watch out and never allow the problem to enter unto you,remember the ship and be like a ship that float in the water,by just not allowing the water inside of it and still sufing and reach it destination.

DO NOT "POST-PONE" ANYTHING YOU MAY WISH TO DO TODAY.

The SEED for todays thought process is...

We many times tend to post-pone our work latter on.

We think we will do this work latter on when we are free.That latter on never comes.because every now and then you post-pone your work that accumulates like a mountain and you always see so much work in front of you.Where will you find time to finsh.Your laziness only becomes large day by day.

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The Wisdom quote here is-

'DO NOT PUT IT OFF ANY WORK TILL,TODAY,TOMORROW !! '

WHAT EVER YOU HAVE TO DO...DO IT NOW AND HERE."

IF YOU DO IT TODAY AND THERE IS NO ACCUMULATED WORK FOR YOUR TOMORROW.

SO THAT YOU CAN COMFORTABLY FINISH YOU WORK EVERYDAY.There are few things you need to do it in right time.Planning to buy a gift for a marriage/birthday /festivals etc has to be fullfiled in time.You can not afford to buy the missed party of your yesterday's that you missed.

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TIME LINE IS VERY CRITICAL.ONCE YOU LOST YOUR TIME....NO MATTER HOW RICH YOU MAY BE...BUT,YOU CAN NEVER GAIN BACK.YOU MAY GAIN YOUR LOST MONEY, BUT CAN NOT AFFORD TO BUY TIME THAT WAS GONE ONCE.'ONCE GONE;GONE FOR EVER'