Monday, January 19, 2009

SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR KIDS




EVERY CHILD IS SO PRECIOUS WHEN THEY BORN.THEIR MIND IS LIKE A BLANK BOOK.IT IS THE PARENTS PRIME RESPONSIBILITY TO FILL THESE BLANK PAGES WITH QUALITY CONTENTS THAT SHALL MAKE THE CHILD SO BLISSFUL,CREATIVE AND GENIUS.THIS IS HOW WE CAN TRANSFORM OUR FUTURE GENERATION.SO SPEND YOUR TIME WITH THE CHILDREN.

Saturday, January 10, 2009



IF WE NEED TO CHANGE THE WORLD,
THE 1ST THING I NEED TO DO IS..
CHANGE MY SELF BY CHANGING
FROM
UNWANTED THOUGHTS
TO
GOOD THOUGHTS

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

SELF CONFIDENCE


WHEN THE AIR IS FILLED FULL INSIDE OF THE BALOON THE BALOON CAN FLY/FLOAT UP IN THE AIR EFFORTLESSELY.SO BUILD YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE AND FILL YOUR HEART AND MIND WITH THAT CONFIDENCE AND BE COOL OR RELAXED AT ANY SITUATION OR ENVIRONMENT.
ALWAYS FEEL AT HEART EVERTHINK IS OK.

8 WAYS TO MAKE GOOD IMPRESSION

Ways to Make a Good Impression

Impressions are important:
They leave an initial taste in people's mouths that can remain prevalent for the entire relationship. If you are paranoid about what kind of impression you make, run through these seven list items and see if you are consistent with them; if you are, then you will probably expose the best of yourself.

If not, then work to meet these standards.
1.Confidence: You just be.. and feel everthing is ok.Be confident about your own-self. Confidence of the self is the foundation on which we are going to build our future.when you are confident and realised your inner beauty,that will be shown on your face.So the face is the index of the mind.

2.Dress: The absolute first impression you will make on someone will be through your clothing, because that is what is seen from a distance, and cannot change throughout your meeting. Make sure to dress according to the situation-don't over or under dress-and maintain within the limits of good taste. If you aren't sure if what you're wearing looks good, ask people for an honest opinion. One last thought: always, and I mean always, pull up your pants.

3. Hygiene: Take a shower! Shave! Brush your teeth! You must be fully bathed and groomed before you meet with someone for the first time, because scruffy looking people generally don't seem as neat and mature. Pay attention to the little elements like breath: keep a pack of mint gum with you wherever you go, and periodically check to make sure you aren't killing bugs every time you breathe out. If you sweat heavily, keep a small stick of deodorant/anti-perspirant close, and if you notice you're stinking you can freshen up. People notice the minutiae!

4. Manners: At the table and with other people be civilized, polite and respectful: keep your elbows off of the table, open doors for people and address everyone-initially, at least-by their formal title. This will make an especially good impression on senior citizens, because you will prove that you aren't one of those "new fangled punks."

5. Speech: Have clean, clear diction and speak sans "like" or "you know." It is important to be articulate because that inspires a feeling of intelligence and education in the person you are meeting with. Always leave out profanity, and whatever you do, make sure to speak loud enough for all to hear, because conversationalists are easily agitated if you force them say "excuse me?" more than a few times.

6. Discretion: Choose what to share about yourself: forget to tell everyone about that time you went camping and ruptured your appendix, then fell face first into a pile of bug infested leaves-it is rude and will alienate you from the group. Try to withhold from conversations on personal subjects like religion or more disgusting topics like personal medical care. Before you speak, think about the possible impact of what you might say, then imagine its implications in the long run.

7. Humor: Humor can be your most powerful tool or your doom, because everyone has a slightly different sense of humor. What might be hilarious to you might seem disgusting to another, or vice versa. Try to withhold from any jokes that aren't family or dinner table friendly; you can tell those later.

8. Start and End with a Bang: I am a classical musician, and in my orchestra, among other messages, the conductor tells us that the "audience remembers mostly the first and last notes of a symphony." This is the same in a personal encounter: whoever you are meeting with will remember how you greet them, and then in what manner you left them. If you feel you have trouble with this, practice a few different phrases in the mirror, and introduce elements like: "pleased to meet you," or "honored to make your acquaintance." Ignore the antiquity of these phrases; it often makes them more memorable.

Making a good impression will set any relationship off on a good foot. If you are in a situation where you need to be judged at face value-such as a job interview or date-then make sure to go through this list and make sure you are within bounds of reason and good taste on all of your decisions.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

WHAT LIES WITHIN.


MEMORY TRICKS

Parent Resources
10 Memory Tricks for Elementary Students
Article provided by Sylvan Learning Center


It's not just parents who could use a memory boost; children can brush up on their recollection skills, as well. From kindergarten through third grade, your child can use memory techniques to remember lists and simple grammatical rules. Below are ten memory tips that will help your child excel in school and in life.

The alphabet system.
Help your child associate images that are represented by the letters of the alphabet. This is a great method for remembering long lists of items in a specific order, and a useful tool for your child to practice alphabet order. For example, "A is for apple, B is for boy."
The link/story method.
Help your child invent bizarre or funny stories to link items he needs to remember. For instance, if he needs to learn primary colors, have him develop a story such as: "The yellow bird grabbed its red parachute and flew into the blue sky."

Acronyms.
Have your child make a word out of the first letters of the item to be recalled. For instance, the letters that spell HOMES represent each of the Great Lakes: Huron, Ontario, Michigan, Erie, and Superior.

The journey system.
This system uses landmarks on a journey. To remember the first four presidents of the United States, take this journey: On our way to Washington, we saw our friend Adam, who wanted to go to Jeff's house to play a new video game called Mad (Washington, Adams, Jefferson, Madison).

Movement learning.
Songs that include movement help children remember the song's vocabulary. "Heads, shoulders, knees, and toes" is very effective.

Excitement and sound.
When reading a book aloud, adding inflection and excitement to the story will help your child remember it. "Fee, fi, fo, fum," boomed the giant in "Jack and the Beanstalk." Children will pick up the emotion of the story through the words that you act, and their increased interest will help them retain more of the information.

Rhyme and rhythm.
This is an effective tool for remembering dates or simple grammatical rules. Example: "In 1492, Columbus sailed the ocean blue." Or: "I before e, except after c."

The number/shape mnemonic.
With this system, your child builds imaginary pictures and uses numbers to represent the shape of the object. The number seven could be a boomerang, for instance.

Color code.
The use of color is linked strongly to memory. If your child needs to remember the original 13 colonies, have them color-code a United States map.

Acrostics.
In a poem that is an acrostic, the first or last letter of each line combine to spell out a word or phrase. Here's an example: -

R educe, reuse, and recycle.
E arth needs us to do our best to keep things clean.
C aring for the planet is everyone's job.
Y ou can do your part to save the environment.
C ollect metal, paper, and plastic for recycling.
L itter free is how it has to be.
E verybody should work together to keep the planet clean.
Source: encarta.msn.com