STOP JUDGING,START LOVING...

Stop all our judging / gauging of the other person with our prejudice/negative condition of the mind. Just De-Condition and Start loving every one around you.Create a 'Aura/Love field' around you.That's it,life is very simple.Do not complicate it unnessarily.LOVE is all and LOVE all.

LIVE EACH DAY TO THE FULLEST

Use what talent you possess: -

" The woods would be very silent if no birds sang

except those that sang best. "

- Henry Van Dyke

"Live each day to the fullest."

- S. H. Payer

'Get the most from each hour, each day,and each age of your life.

Then you can look forward with confidence,and back without regrets.'

• Be yourself - but be your best self.
• Dare to be different and to follow your own star. And don't be afraid to be happy.
• Enjoy what is beautiful.
• Love with all your heart and soul. Believe that those you love, love you.
• When you are faced with decisions, make that decision as wisely as possible - then forget it.
• The moment of absolute certainty never arrives.
• And above all else, remember that God/Existance helps those who help themselves.
• Act as if everything depended upon you,and pray as if everything depended upon Nature/God.

I believe

that we don't have to change friends

if we understand that friends change.
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I believe-

that no matter how good a friend is,

they're going to hurt you every

once in a while and you must forgive

them for that.

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I believe-

that true friendship continues to grow,

even over the longest distance.

Same goes for true love.

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I believe-

that you can do something in an instant

that will give you heartache for life.

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I believe-

that it's taking me a long time

to become the person I want to be.
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I believe-

that you should always leave loved ones

with loving words.

It may be the last time you see them.
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I believe-

that you can keep going

long after you can't.

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I believe-

that we are responsible for what we do,

no matter how we feel.

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I believe-

that either you control your attitude

or it controls you.

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I believe-

that regardless of how hot and

steamy a relationship is at first,

the passion fades and there had

better be something else to take

its place.
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I believe-

that heroes are the people

who do what has to be done

when it needs to be done,

regardless of the consequences.

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I believe-

that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

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I believe-

that my best friend

and I can do anything

or nothing and have the best time.

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I believe-

that sometimes the people you expect to kick you

when you're down,will be the ones to help you get back up.
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I believe-

that sometimes when I'm angry

I have the right to be angry,

but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

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I believe-

that just because someone doesn't love

you the way you want them to doesn't

mean they don't love you with all they have.

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I believe-

that maturity has more to do with

what types of experiences you've had

and what you've learned from them and less to do with

how many birthdays you've celebrated.

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I believe-

that it isn't always enough to before

given by others.

Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
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I believe-

that no matter how bad your heart is broken

the world doesn't stop for your grief.
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I believe-

that our background and circumstances

may have influenced who we are,

but we are responsible for who we become.

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I believe-

that just because two people argue,

it doesn't mean they don't love each other

And just because they don't argue,

It doesn't mean they do.

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I believe-

that you shouldn't be so eager to find out asecret

It could change your life forever.
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I believe-

that two people can look at the exact

same thing and see something totally different.

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I believe-

that your life can be changed in a matter of

hours by people who don't even know you.
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I believe-

that even when you think you have no more

to give, when a friend cries out to you

you will find the strength to help.

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I believe-

that credentials on the wall do not make

you a decent human being.
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I believe-

that the people you care about most in life

are taken from you too soon

Nature does nothing uselessly.

- Aristotle

LET YOUR "EYES" DO THE TALKING

I know a lot of people feel really uncomfortable when people stare at them, but it doesn't bother me so much. I guess I assume people are just friendly and curious.

Personally, I'm always curious about the people around and I know I would stare at others more if it wasn't "against the rules". In Asia, it's not culturally impolite to stare and as a white person, people really do tend to stare at you. I know that a lot of travelers find it very offensive, but in Nepal, I learnt that the best thing to do was to stare back at the person staring at you. The results were amazing. Sometimes it would take a full 10 seconds or more of staring and smiling but eventually the other person would start to smile and you felt a real connection. Actually it's really amazing what you can say with your eyes alone.

For instance have you ever wondered what happens if you do break the eye contact rules?One day in Stockholm, I was feeling so lonely that I decided to find out. It was a pretty funny experience. I was on the train about eight minutes from my station, and opposite me sat a young guy about the same age as me. So I looked at him and when he looked back at me I didn't do what was expected - I just keep looking, and of course smiling. Well, what happened? After a short time, it occurred to me that he thought I was "checking him out". Oops, so that's what happens if you break this rule. The last few minutes to my station were a little uncomfortable and I couldn't get off that train fast enough! So wherever you go in the world you can say a lot without even opening your mouth.

The problem is that sometimes what you are saying with your eyes depends on where in the world you are. One thing is for sure though, wherever in the world you end up, a friendly look and a smile can open doors.

So I challenge you to go out there and let your eyes do the talking!

--- Written in 2006 by Clare McLennan --- Sweden

Team Work

"There are plenty of teams in every sport that have great players and never win titles. Most of the time, those players aren't willing to sacrifice for the greater good of the team. The funny thing is, in the end, their unwillingness to sacrifice only makes individual goals more difficult to achieve. One thing I believe to the fullest is that if you think and achieve as a team, the individual accolades will take care of themselves. Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence win championships."

- Michael Jordan

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